Monday, January 4, 2010

New Year, New Blog, New Life

So this is the beginning, okay technically the middle of my life... but it seems NEW. Being married at the beginning of a new year is like starting over.  I decided that's okay.  It means I can do some things differently this year.  So I guess you could say I'm making a few resolutions promises pacts "goals".  I know that most people don't keep their resolutions, but that's why I'm calling them "goals".  I really don't want to feel defeated if I don't accomplish each and every one of them every day.  But I want them to be overall themes, projects, attitudes for the next year. So here we go:

  • Make church and Christian fellowship a priority
    • William and I started the new year out right by starting our search for a new church home.  Since we would like to stay in Dallas, we obviously won't be able to go to Tallowood much.  This mean we have to find somewhere that fits us in Dallas.  Our requirements are close to home, good pastor, newlywed sunday school class, and places to give back (think youth group, volunteer and mission opportunities). We visited Wilshire Baptist Church this morning.  We liked it for the most part but we will see how it compares later in the process. 
  • Cooking
    • Most people know I don't really know how to cook.  And what I do cook I generally excel at fail miserably at. So basically I'm going to start trying to learn.  I'm planning on cooking something new around 2 to 3 nights a week.  Hopefully William will appreciate my attempts... even if they lead to a few burnt meals small fires. 
  • Make healthy decisions
    • I know, I know... it's a lame "goal".  It's everyone's goal right? But I guess I really need to start taking this seriously.  I feel like everyday my clock starts ticking a little faster.  I've learned that each visit to my doctor tends to bring bad news. Most recently I was told I have beta 1 glycoprotein 2 antibodies in my blood.  These are related to your bloods coagulating agents.  I'm apparently quite susceptible to blood clots. Anyways, long story short, I need to get in shape. You never know what could happen tomorrow... and if I got a blood clot, I can bet recovery (if I got that chance) would be way worse if I was overweight. 
  • Give back
    • This goes right with the church thing.  I've been blessed my entire life by mentors in my church families that really affected who I am today. I really hope that I can have that affect on someone else. So I'm going to get plugged in. I refuse to be a bottom in a pew each week.  I have more to give than that. 
  • Try to control my temper and impatience Be nice
    • It has been pointed out to me by my husband (directly) and by some friends (indirectly) that I can be mean.  It's funny because I don't think I'm a mean person. I do however have very high expectations for other people.  Which I guess leads me to be a little grouchy when they don't meet up with them. So I'm going to practice some patience and compassion.  I mean if I can do it with my clients, then why not with my peers, friends, husband and strangers?
  • Last but not least.... Blog!
    • I LIKE blogging. I just forget to. That or I think my life is too lame to read about. Which it probably is. So anyways, even if only my mom and dad ever read this (and it gets emailed to them) I'm going to try to blog every day. If you stop by, leave a comment! Please! I'm begging you! Moral support is fabulous! Maybe Mom and Dad can even make it to my REAL site and see my beautiful new layout! 
So did you make any "goals" this new year?  I'd love to hear about them... maybe we can keep each other accountable!

4 comments:

bm said...

I read the blog, and I'm not your parents, and I'm currently in the middle of the ocean...so i like the last goal

Paul Robey said...

Ok, I thought I would check the New and Improved Blog. Very Nice! I even read all of your "Goals" as you put it. Kind of inspiring to me. We have actually discussed some similar goals. Maybe not quite as lofty and involved, but still the same they are in a certain directions. You will be happy to know that in the last 2 months I have bought 2 new books. I know 2 books. One of them I am on chapter 5 and the other I am on Chapter 4. They are totally different types of books. One on relationships and the other on religion. So I plan to read more and work on those 2 items. That is a goal. Getting healthier and in better shape! I joined at my office a Biggest Loser Contest(at this very moment I am eating a piece of pecan pie, I start being a loser tomorrow). I did go running tonight at Memorial park and plan to work out and run lots more now that the holidays are over. Plus I am going sking so I have to get into shape. So that is another goal. Lastly and more important I want to see more of my kids when possible. That is a tough one since life is busy and sometimes complicated.

OK, now the real reason I am writing on this thing. I noticed that you completely left Lucy out of your goals. I know William was in there, but I did not hear any mention of my Grand Puppy. I have decided after walking her around Memorial Park while she was in my care, one goal for her is to learn how to drink from a doggy water fountain. Otherwise you have to carry her little pink portable bowl. Lastly, I think maybe a new trick. She is such a smart doggie it should be easy.

Love you.

Dad

Erin said...

Great blog today and love your goals! I want to blog more too. I need to chat with you about how you have customized things. I need to do more. Also, I have a gift for you..should I mail it or are you two going to be in Houston this weekend??

Peyton said...

Erin-
We won't be in town this weekend... should we be? No one ever tells us anything! haha! I'll message you the websites I used to make everything pretty! Thanks for noticing. Unless you have a blog you don't understand how hard it is to beautify it!

Brooke-
I knew you were in the ocean! I didn't know oceans had blog access!

Dad-
Thanks for visiting for REAL! I bet you didn't know how beautiful it was! Hmm... and about Lucy. We will work on the water fountain... but I'm not sure we have access to one here. At the dog park they just have big plastic swimming pools for them to drink from. We will also work on the trick. Maybe we can teach her to roll over! Or pee in the toilet! How great would that be! And come visit us again. I won't make you sleep on the couch... you can stay in a hotel!